New Stage the Ugly Stage
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New Stage the Ugly Stage tomuchpain:   Well I have to honestly say that I never thought that it would get ugly but at least all of the major stuff is already done so she can't really screw me over that bad.
  I just can't believe what she is mad at.  Now maybe I am in the wrong so I would like to ask all of you if I am being a dick or is she being unreasonable (unreasonable sounded so much better than bitch).
  So last night after work I went to the house to get some more things.  Its was very emotinal for me and I almost turn around and went home before I got there.  But I sucked it up and went.  I loaded the car to the ceiling with stuff and loaded her garbage over the rim.  Now I was planning on putting the xtra trash in a trash bag but I was really in a bad emotinal state so I for got then this morning I got the following email from her:

I just saw the pile of shit on top of the trash can. You are out of your fucking mind if you think that is OK. You expect me to roll that out to the curb on Sunday. Not be able to throw any of my own trash away, I pay for that service now. I wont even be able to put that out all at once. I am not dealing with your shit. You need to come over immediatly and take your shit away. I am loosing my patience in a BIG way Tim

  Then earlier today I spoke with her on the phone.  I told her that I was sorry for not putting the xtra trash in a trash bag but I forgot and I also told her that I would pay for 1/2 her garbage that month.  She  preceeds to tell me that I need to take all my trash and my stuff when I leave.  By the way there were only 4 half bags of trash that I threw away (they were only half because it was alot of heavy things) and I think that there might be maybe 4-5 more bags to go. 
  I told her that she was being unreasonable that she would want me to take my trash with me too.  So  please tell me if I am being a dick or not.  I feel that she is being completly unreasonable but maybe I'm wrong.

Re: New Stage the Ugly Stage drowned: You know, I would take the trash and load it up in the trunk and drop it off in a dumpster somewhere. You are not being the dick here since you have appologized. Give them the slightest reason to be shitty and they will do it.
AND do it with a smile...I know it's tuff but suck it up again buddy, you're a better person in all of this ;)


Re: New Stage the Ugly Stage spooky: Sounds like you tried to make it up and apologize... Some people just don't care about such things though and they think your half of resposibility completely outweighs their half. Been there, just curse under your breath when she can't hear and move on.
Re: New Stage the Ugly Stage tomuchpain:   Well I did curse spooky but it wansn't under my breath and it wasn't by myself.  But I did ultimatly tell her that I would take the stuff.  I just can't believe she is getting upset over that.
Re: New Stage the Ugly Stage Melbel: I think it's kinda stupid!  Sorry but it's trash....would she have packed her trash.  I am thinking no because you would not have even thought about it.  I am sorry that she is being silly, I mean it just playing games.  I have no tolerance for people that do this kinda stuff!

Melissa

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