Question to the dads.. sosad05: This is for you dads who have visitation and your xw has majority of custody.
How does that feel...going from having your children everyday to visitation? For those of you who are in new relationships, does that make it better? Dont you hate not having your children all the time?
I just wonder how xh feels. I miss them so much when they are gone only overnight.
Re: Question to the dads.. spooky: I'm okay with it. I think overall our relationship has improved (hard to tell since I'm with my parent's all the time) because she isn't exposed to her mother undermining me and fighting me all the time and I'm a better person for not being around that as well. It sucks to miss out on some things yeah, but if it brings something positive for her it isn't so bad. It's relative though.
Re: Question to the dads.. twine: i can't explain the empty feeling that i get when my kids arn't here with me.They are living 4.5 hours from me and i see them everyother weekend, i could see them every weekend but can't afford the gas travelling back and forth that much. i am currently looking for a job that would get me closer to my kids, i pray that i find a good one there.
Re: Question to the dads.. Peaceandquiet: Honestly it sucks... even though I have half custody..split one week on one week off... it took away the day to day of seeing and learning about my kids. I'd say more but after two years it still pisses me off.
Re: Question to the dads.. JNA: [quote author=sosad05 link=topic=31510.msg314938#msg314938 date=1152833583">
This is for you dads who have visitation and your xw has majority of custody.
How does that feel...going from having your children everyday to visitation? For those of you who are in new relationships, does that make it better? Dont you hate not having your children all the time?
I just wonder how xh feels. I miss them so much when they are gone only overnight.
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Well guys that don't go for "Joint" or Shared" custody never really cared anyway IMO...
There are exceptions to the rule like court systems not giving it
But...
Doesn't mean you cannot work with your ex to get them more in which most would oblige
Just my two-sense...
JNA
BTW I have Joint/Shared...
A complicated little thing as all courts make things
Ya see me and D let our parents have the kids too...
So Shared/Joint
LOL No Kidding...
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