At least I tried... spooky: Well, I went to a place I used to work (it's been almost a year) earlier today and did something that I guess could be some sort of progress. I primarily wanted to see if a certain cashier still worked there. I didn't go just for that really, I did want to see who was still there that I liked and got along with as well. Anyway, I thought that even though we only talked a couple times while I was there, there'd be nothing wrong with visiting with her a second. And while I was at it, why not ask if she's seeing anyone? "No guts no glory", "who dares wins", "I'll probably never be back again or see her outside of this place so what have I got to lose?", etc... I dunno, she'd probably think it's weird or something to just appear out of the blue after a year and say "yeah, I'm divorced now... hey, while I'm here how's about I get your number?", but at least I've gotten myself willing to take a shot. A couple people were gone today, maybe I'll go back and try again? ::)
Re: At least I tried... JNA: [quote author=spooky link=topic=31511.msg314943#msg314943 date=1152835127">
Well, I went to a place I used to work (it's been almost a year) earlier today and did something that I guess could be some sort of progress. I primarily wanted to see if a certain cashier still worked there. I didn't go just for that really, I did want to see who was still there that I liked and got along with as well. Anyway, I thought that even though we only talked a couple times while I was there, there'd be nothing wrong with visiting with her a second. And while I was at it, why not ask if she's seeing anyone? "No guts no glory", "who dares wins", "I'll probably never be back again or see her outside of this place so what have I got to lose?", etc... I dunno, she'd probably think it's weird or something to just appear out of the blue after a year and say "yeah, I'm divorced now... hey, while I'm here how's about I get your number?", but at least I've gotten myself willing to take a shot. A couple people were gone today, maybe I'll go back and try again? ::)
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Well if you do see her again...
Do this...
Say hey here is my number
Call me sometime ok...
(No more words)
Walk away and let her think about it...
JNA
Re: At least I tried... spooky: [quote author=JNA link=topic=31511.msg315035#msg315035 date=1152842185">
Well if you do see her again...
Do this...
Say hey here is my number
Call me sometime ok...
(No more words)
Walk away and let her think about it...
JNA
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Ooooo, I'd have to really be feeling gusty that day! :D Well I guess if I just keep repeating those quotes I could do it. But she knew I was married last year and might think I was trying to cheat or involve her in something. ???
Re: At least I tried... Deadfish: Just ask her if she wants to go out sometime and talk about stuff, not a date, just as friends. Tell her it would be fun. That's what I did and it worked. But this week she moved back home (very far away) and I was like NOOO! Oh well. Go for it! Even if she thinks you're a freak, who cares, it's not like you have to see her every day... She could say YES...
Re: At least I tried... icwtsmnl: [quote author=Deadfish link=topic=31511.msg315122#msg315122 date=1152861574">
Just ask her if she wants to go out sometime and talk about stuff, not a date, just as friends. [/quote">
no woman believes that line.
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