It's not my business, but... Fjord Girl: My closest friend from school, who happens to be working with me this summer, left her husband in january after cheating on him. She's now living with the other man and she sounds very happy. This girl has somehow helped to understand the other face of the mirror when she tells me how unhappy she was with her ex and I have tried not to judge her, but I surprise myself when I tell her things like "Oh, don't feel guilty, you just did what you had to do." -- What a hypocrite I am because sometimes I feel like bitch-slapping her. Even though she keeps saying her ex is a great guy and they are in really good terms... Well, she's a cheater.
Anyhoo, today before leaving work she was complaining because she hasn't been able to see her daughter due to our busy schedule and then the little one is supposed to spend the weekend with her daddy, so my friend asked him if she could have her instead and the guy said "NO" -- Then she proceeded to blurt out a few really not nice words about him and I was *this close* to tell her to shut the *beep* up, that he wasn't the one who chose this situation, so she better puts up with it because she's the leaver, the traitor and the person who broke the family apart. But of course I said nothing.
I just wonder if one day I'm just going to explode and tell her what I really think about what she did. Hard to be in the "dumpee" position and listening to all the wonderful stories about her new man because her ex was, oh so, boring, blah, blah, blah. Yeah, gets on my nerves.
Re: It's not my business, but... Chey: Oh screw that crap I'd be all over her like white on rice with my opinion.
Re: It's not my business, but... Fjord Girl: I'm sure she knows what I think because she knows my story. I'm just too nice, or too stupid or one of these days I'll join the dark forces and put a spell on all the cheaters and send them to hell.
Re: It's not my business, but... yella: If she knows your story, and understands it, then she should be watching what she says and be more sensitive to how you'd feel. IMO...
Re: It's not my business, but... Fjord Girl: Well, I've noticed she tries REALLY hard to justify her actions and she keeps talking about how much her relationship with her new boyfriend makes her happy and how much she needed the change. She definitely tries too hard, also to justify that she's 24 and her boyfriend is 41 and she basically supports him. I just can't stand it when she talks shit about her ex.
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