Re: Refuse to Lose RW1976: Ranking, Well said. I think a lot of us feel the same way. Being alone and thinking that you are a failure are strong emotions.
Re: Refuse to Lose confused101: I had to do some soul searching last night. I have gotten to the point I feel like I'm being held hostage just to avoid the feeling of being by myself. It's not my fault that other peoples lives are flawed in a way that doesn't allow them to carry on their part in relationships. It is my fault that I chose them to be with. All along it should have been them choosing to be with me. My marriage was like that for a while but derailed. That's ok. It's the aftermath and the inferior views of myself that have led me to having to take a deep look at myself and figure out why in hell I have put myself in situations where I hang on and let others control my emotions and feelings.
I feel very driven today to change this. I hope this feeling stays.
Re: Refuse to Lose icwtsmnl: [s"> alone[/s"> on my own. that's better.
Re: Refuse to Lose bardlain: Rainking~
That was awesome. I think I might print it out and post it next to my bathroom mirror!
You rock.
Re: Refuse to Lose snkpack: That was so beautifully worded and so representative of the attitude that everyone on this board should be striving for. I decided here recently after a five year struggle that I didn't need changing, that I just needed to be with someone who could accept me for who I am.
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