I know it's time to move on sweetie1:
Since, last week I found out about my husband cheated on me the more and more I start to realize he does not give a shit. After, my husband drove me and my daughter home back from Illinois to Connecticut it seemed to me he wanted to work things out. When, he got back there he would call me just to tell me how he is doing and ask how I was doing. I was pretty happy that I could trust him. I then started to call him once a day to see how he was doing. Then I started to write e-mail's to him and calling him to tell him how much I still loved him and that I was willing to forget. But, the more I did that the more he stop calling me. Just this week I decided to check the phone records and sure enough he was still talking to the other women. I got mad and bitched at him. But, then I decided to stop. I had called my lawyer yesterday to maybe stop the legal seperation paper work becuase my husband was leaving for Iraq. She told me to talk it over with my husband and then call back. Well, I called my husband and told him that. That piece of garbage told me why did I do that for. He said that he already start the divorce papers. I was beyond hurt. He gave me the impression last week that he wanted to work things out. He said that he does not want to work things out, and wants to be happy without me. He said that I should stop acting like his mother and that he could talk to who ever he wants. He told me to call my lawyer back and tell her to get the divorce paper's ready. I was like you mother F' I could not believe it. He did not know where I got the idea that we were getting back together. He just told me last week that he want's our daughter and me to move to chicago and he will get an apartment for us. He wanted us to stay there while he was in Iraq. Since, yesterday I have not called him or e-mailed. Now I know he is playing games and does not care. He just lost a good women. As of yesterday I'm a new women.
Re: I know it's time to move on confused101: Yeah! Screw him! Make yourself happy and do what you need to do.
Ain't got time for retarded games and bullsh*t.
Re: I know it's time to move on drowned: I am with rainking on this, put your game face on and lay it out for him in black and white...
It's his loss NOT yours ;)
Re: I know it's time to move on 2be: It sucks that they tug and pull at our hearts like that, giving us false hope only to dash it all again. But your eyes have been forever opened. Be strong and learn to be happy with yourself. You have done everything you can and it was HIS decision to bail on you.
Keep posting... :)
Re: I know it's time to move on Bird: I'm with the boys on this one-
screw him and concentrate on your life without him and how much better it will be without these games!
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