Strange Situation cheatedonagain: I had to see my ex with the OW yesterday. I couldn't sleep the night before....was so upset about this....thought I would break down when I saw them BUT...
when I saw them together and had to actually talk to him with her standing next to him the entire time staring at me I was fine. I was more than fine! I looked at her and saw her for the person she is....a piece of trash that sleeps with married men but more than that she is a very ugly person. Then looking at my husband I saw the same thing in him. I felt so good about myself. I saw two people that deserve each other. If he didn't realize what he gave up to be with her and have his affair he will in time. If he wasn't on drugs and living in a fog he would have seen it yesterday. I am not conceited or anything so please don't think I am....but standing there yesterday I felt like a model and a person with class and dignity and if I was her (or him) I would have felt like such a fool. I'm sure they didn't...but boy did it make me smile and feel good!
Someday...don't know when....it will hit him! He left his kids and wife, gave up his family and life and lowered himself and he has a woman and a new lifestyle to prove it.
Yah Me!!!
:)
Re: Strange Situation jrios29: Much love and kudos to you sweetie! I'm happy you have been the better person through out and U know he lost, not you! :D
Re: Strange Situation icwtsmnl: that's great!! what a good feeling to have!
Re: Strange Situation lilly10: Good for you!
It's a pretty good moment indeed when you realize that you are the one coming out on top. You don’t sound conceited at all and you know what the way you felt was the image you projected and they certainly saw that.
Re: Strange Situation Roseville: It's a great feeling, isn't it? I've not experienced this with my husband (we're still married, reconcilling, no OM or OW involved) but I did have a similar experience with someone I truely dispised!
OK - long story short - when I was in high school, this very mean, ugly, nasty person HATED MY GUTS! For what? Well, I was her boyfriend's (ugly hoodlum drug addict) LAB PARTNER in science class! Now, I don't know what he may have said about me to her, but she was one crazy biatch! After weeks of threatening me (of which I ignored - I'm a lady and always have been one, and I certainly had NOTHING to fight for - I didn't want her nasty ole boyfriend) but anyways, I digress, she decided that this was the day, and she came after me right after class. I was walking out of class, with my lab partner, and she came up to me like a crazy bat out of hell, and HE stepped in front of me and she started yelling at both of us and he ended up hitting her! Well, at this point, I was already with my now husband (since age 15) and she came up behind me one day while I was getting something from my locker, and shoved me (causing me to bang my head on the locker) (ok - I know you all are laughing at me) Anyways, later that day, we were at our locker, hubby and I, and she walked past and he tripped her! It was hilarious - she was humiliated and she never bothered me again!
OK --> fast forward about 8 years. I walk in with a couple of co-workers to a local Taco Bell. I was dressed very nice (dress, pantyhose, matching shoes/purse...blah blah) and there she was....working at Taco Bell. Not only was she working at Taco Bell, but she looked like she was about 40 years old, and was only like 24! Oh, sometimes the best revenge is made for us, and we don't have to do a thing!
J
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