Arrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh!!!!! ATLfoodie: Ok, so my wife and I have good constructive talk yesterday afternoon. She had a seminar last night and then straight to work. (She works overnights for a major TV network). After the seminar and on her way to work she calls and we talk some more. She said she got just what she needed from the seminar last night. Now this is a 10 week class, 3 hours long once a week. Anyway she says she wants a divorce. Thats it. Final. I talked to her a little more and reminded her that she promised to go to the therapist with me at least once. Again she agreed, but said it won't help.
I stayed at the apartment last night because it was my Mother's b'day and her BF was taking her out and I didn't want to be here if they came back for some lovin'.
So my wife comes home this morning and we make small talk. I was being a little flirty like the old days. Next thing I know we're making love.
This just has me a little confused. Granted it was wonderful to me. I just hope it wasn't a mercy f*ck
Re: Arrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh!!!!! icwtsmnl: I hate to say....... sweetie, i think you know the answer to that. she made it clear what she wants. the sex may have been nice and she may have enjoyed it, but that's nowhere near enough to equate with "we have a chance". i'm so sorry she led you on for that "encounter". you deserve better.
Re: Arrrrrgggggghhhhhhhh!!!!! ATLfoodie: You're right. It was a mercy one. I had to go over earlier this evening to give her some bill money for my share of June. She made it clear it was a one shot deal.
At least by going to the therapist we can either work through some differences or I can get a little closure. This has been a shitty 2 weeks.
