An extremely difficult ex td7629: Can someone please explain to me why my ex is being so difficult and trying to make my life a living hell? He is the one who cheated and left to be with someone else....so why does he continue with his abuse?? Is it because I filed for divorce?? I just don't understand... he has what he wanted... why can't he just stop?
Re: An extremely difficult ex E: what is he doing? It's hard to help unless you are more specific.
Re: An extremely difficult ex Dolphin Close: Why do you allow the abuse? If you can't stand him, move.
Re: An extremely difficult ex JNA: td wrote: Can someone please explain to me why my ex is being so difficult and trying to make my life a living hell? He is the one who cheated and left to be with someone else
Because sometimes that "Guilt" makes them very angry at themselves for what they did...
So when you are in the picture everytime he thinks or looks at you he hates himself for what he did deep down
So instead of looking into him and accepting the blame it is "eaier" to blame it one someone else...
My ex in a fit of rage said I Hate You then later apologized
It is the guilt...
IMO
JNA
I've read a thousand posts like yours...
Even seen ex's respond to them...
One word "Guilt"
Re: An extremely difficult ex trashtv.grrl: I don't really know the circumstances of your situation, but my x turned into a very cruel person when the divorce occured. I couldn't understand what the deal was when he initated the divorce, cheated, left, took no responsibility, still somehow I was labeled as the difficult spouse. I don't know what to tell you, but many people told me the same thing that the person above wrote which was that it had to do with his own guilt. It seems odd and back ass wards, but there is not much that I understand in this divorce situation. Sorry that someone is treating you poorly. -Chard.
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