my husband keeps making himself look like a pice of shit sweetie1:
Well, today I had to call him. I just got two weird phones calls from the are where my husand live. Well, actually this are code that I found out was 30 minutes away from chicago, but that is the exact distant where the OW lives. I called and bitched at him. I told him why the hell is someone from over there is calling me. He tells me that I did not tell anyone to call you and that no one wants to talk to you anyways. All he kept doing was cursing at me and calling me stupid. Shit, I was not taking that. I told him off. He said you are going to do what I say, yeah right I'm not. Today was the first time I never cared to ask him why he wants a divorce. I just told him that he hurt me a lot and you don't care. He had nothing to say. I said I will never bother you again about this. I will keep everything to my self. But, you know what 2 min before we end the conversation he said to me are you still planning to come down here and live. I was like maybe, but in my head I was like I don't think so. I'm getting my post office job which pays $18.60 an hour and 4 classes away from my associates. I'm not giving that up for his bullsh*t. He for only I care could screw around all he wants. His thinking his he wants his cake and eat it too! I don't think so.
Re: my husband keeps making himself look like a pice of shit Roseville: It sounds like you have a very bright future ahead of you - don't sacrifice yourself for someone that won't sacrifice for you. You go out there girl and make that money! Get that degree! What an inspiration - don't let him drag you back down into the gutter.
Congrats & Lots of Luck,
J
