Re: Hard decision... spooky: [quote author=Nvfd link=topic=31578.msg315965#msg315965 date=1153001303">
. One of the last things I want to happen is if he does find out that shes seeing me and its by seeing us together that he losses his temper and does something stupid.
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Is that really a possibility do you think?
Re: Hard decision... Bird: hon, i'm going to play devil's advocat...
now, if there's a kid involved and also her and her childs financial security then she is likely to keep that door wide open with her ex. you're right to feel threatened, because she doesn't sound like she's really planning in you into her and hte child's future.
you need to have a serious chat with her- and I mean serious. But before that, you need to be sure that you are willing to enter fully into her life and the child's- and not just as a boyfriend, but as a father figure. If you're not ready to take that leap, then you really can't afford her the same security that she is seeking from her husband.
ok, so this is my opinion, so take it with a lump of salt.
Re: Hard decision... Nvfd: Thanks guys, I really appreciate the honesty I get from you all. Thats what im looking for. Im not looking for someone to sugar coat things and make it sound nice. I want it right between the eyes. No spooky I dont think thats a possibility, but then again I dont know him. Im just trying to be cautious.
