sex and moving on E: When my ex and I separated last July (his choice) one of my biggest issues was how I would ever want to have sex with anyone else. He was the only one I had been with for close to 13 years (nine year marriage) and I couldn't see myself ever being with anyone else.
However, that changed when I met someone else a short time later! I thought that if I could be with someone that meant I must be over my ex. Not true! Sex with someone new is actually the easy part. It's the emotional conection that is more of a struggle. I find myself very hesitant to let my emotions and vulnerabilities show.
Anyway, I just thought it was a interesting self-discovery. Divorce is certainly a time when you do start to find yourself again. And you can suprise youself!
Re: sex and moving on Bigchuck: Sex is always easy the hard part is whatever comes after.
Re: sex and moving on superwife: [quote author=E link=topic=31583.msg315969#msg315969 date=1153002202">
Sex with someone new is actually the easy part. It's the emotional conection that is more of a struggle. I find myself very hesitant to let my emotions and vulnerabilities show.
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Damn!! What a profound statement!!
Re: sex and moving on JNA: [quote author=E link=topic=31583.msg315969#msg315969 date=1153002202">
When my ex and I separated last July (his choice) one of my biggest issues was how I would ever want to have sex with anyone else. He was the only one I had been with for close to 13 years (nine year marriage) and I couldn't see myself ever being with anyone else.
However, that changed when I met someone else a short time later! I thought that if I could be with someone that meant I must be over my ex. Not true! Sex with someone new is actually the easy part. It's the emotional conection that is more of a struggle. I find myself very hesitant to let my emotions and vulnerabilities show.
Anyway, I just thought it was a interesting self-discovery. Divorce is certainly a time when you do start to find yourself again. And you can suprise youself!
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Nice post...
Yup it is "so" true
With my ex sex was not anything I cared about...I just "Loved" her so much from the Heart...
I cared about her so much (at the time)
Sex is fun but not love
Never will be...
JNA
Re: sex and moving on snkpack: Its easy for me to separate the two, and yes more difficult to open up my heart than it is to open up my legs . . .
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