Re: sex and moving on E: good one!
Re: sex and moving on MikeB: I'd like to add that there are some people for which it isn't easy or even possible to have a sexual relation with someone else... me for example... for me, sex without love is not something I'd enjoy... I did it twice and regretted it afterwards... that's why for eleven months now I don't have a sex-life... not that it doesn't bug me... not that I don't get "urges"... but everytime my interactions with a girl get even within the "vicinty of the parking lot of the ballpark" of sex ( :)) I feel literally sick... there's one girl I love... and I can't be with someone else... not even when I'm totally drunk or really have urges... but then I'm a little oddball... but actually... I feel good about that.
-Mike
Re: sex and moving on twine: Mike your not alone, for me to just have a one night stand or a f@#k friend it wouldn't be possible i don't think, even when i was young that isn't something that i did, when my stbxw and i started dating we waited close to two months before having sex , ya i get the same urges as everyone else does but I have more urges to be loved in an emotional way than i do in a physical way.
Re: sex and moving on MikeB: I didn't do that (sex without love) in or after the relationship... but these two times when it happened were over a year before the relationship... anyway - I regretted it...
I know I'm not alone... but it's always good to hear... :)
I too want to be loved much more than I want to have sex...
Re: sex and moving on whythisnow: Same , Same...
I am in a realtionship and we both really enjoy the sex.
But, I think I am falling in love....
I don't want to be in love. I am affraid of all the stuff that goes with it and after getting my guts ripped out and mind screwed it is really hard to trust again. I am very concerned about another relationship and how it will turn out. It is so easy to be the guy that has no emotions and just move on.
She is the last thing I think about when I fall asleep, she is what I dream about and she is the first thing I think about when I wake up. All I think about is holding her and kissing her.
I'm toast. Stick a Fork in me --- I'm done.
I love it when I make her laugh...and she never heard all my stupid jokes before. So, I have alot of matterial. ;D
FIDO
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