Re: Why the guilt now??? madmax: To answer your question...yes, it is normal to experience this while grieving.
Hey Man...it takes 2 to make a marriage...only 1 to destroy it! Take comfort in knowing that you did your part. It's AOK to acknowledge where you may have struggled...but you didn't do everything wrong either.
I'm with lumpy on the infidelity...that's a real deal breaker that she made.
Re: Why the guilt now??? wendieann: [quote author=Lumpy link=topic=32022.msg322958#msg322958 date=1153710801">
I think it's healthy and natural to take a hard look at yourself. Not to the point where you're beating yourself up however. We all made some mistakes in our marriages. [/quote">
What ifs/if Only/how come? etc.etc. Is all normal. Sometimes, it forces us to look deep inside and to LEARN about ourselves as an INDIVIDUAL.... Some things we can improve on, for the next time...
The rollercoaster ride we share, just means we loved deeply... and will love again.
Hang on... and learn from it all... ;)
