Memories? Do the X's remember? wendieann: I was just wondering...we all deal with memories, and get emotional over them... Do you think our X's ever come across a memory? And actually feel?
Do they think, "ya, this was my X's favorite restaurant..." or do they just drag the OW in without thinking? ETC..ETC.. ???
I know, it doesn't really matter, but just thinking...thats all... ???
Re: Memories? Do the X's remember? Fjord Girl: I suppose they do. The same way you remember things about people you have shared your life with. *Sigh*
Re: Memories? Do the X's remember? CDNgurl: You know wendieann, I had a similar thought this weekend. It was a bad weekend for me.
My ex recently had a baby with OW/new wife... and I kept wondering how he could be in the SAME hospital, on the SAME floor ... heck, maybe even same room, and not even think of me once.
And you know what? I bet that he did not.
I struggle with memories. I feel like the four years we were together were a complete lie (the "I never loved you" pretty much solidified that), so it is like the memories are lies...
BUT ... I truly believe that other X's have more of a heart than mine.
and yes... as you said, it doesn't really matter in the end.
Re: Memories? Do the X's remember? td7629: I would like to think that my ex does think of all that he has given up but I honestly don't even know him anymore.. he is not who I thought he was.
Re: Memories? Do the X's remember? cheatedonagain: "I would like to think that my ex does think of all that he has given up but I honestly don't even know him anymore.. he is not who I thought he was."
My thoughts exactly!!!
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