Skeptical ATLfoodie: Ok, my wife just called me and asked me over for dinner. We are supposed to go see the therapist tomorrow. Why do I feel like I am about to be blindsided tonight? My heart is like "yea, she's coming to her senses", but my gut is saying "Dude, she's only inviting you over to let you know that counselling won't help and she wants a divorce."
I am so confused by all this. I spent 8 hours over there yesterday helping her nurse her hangover. I was a complete gentleman the whole time I was there. Why all of a sudden now?
Re: Skeptical JNA: Always go with your gut feeling...
I have ignored that and gotten burned...
You know her history as well as anyone and "History" tends to repeat itself with these types...
IMO
JNA
Re: Skeptical LNC: foodie:
I can relate to the whole confusion thing. All I can say is trust your gut. Hopefully she is being sincere in trying to work things out but if your gut is telling you something else, be prepared for it. No one knows you better that you.
stay strong,
-LNC
Re: Skeptical ga_sunshyne: Foodie...
Alls I can offer is look-out for YOU because no one else will. I went through the same thing over and over again for at least a year. He would call..ask me over for dinner and a movie...then ask me to stay the night...and yup u guessed it....the next day it was like he didn't even know me or want to talk to me oreven acknowledge my presence. THen I would find out the following nite that he would have his OW over and she'd stay the night too. I would end up feeling used. And he was having his cake and eating it too....I finally had to end it. Too much mental and emotional turmoil for me. Now it has backfired on him. He has her, lives with her...but it's killing him to see that after a year of waiting on him to figure out if he wanted her or our family that I finally decided to raise the white flag.....I was over and dne with. I am now 3 months into seeing somene and it is killing him.
Trust your gut and if you feel like there is truly a chance at saving your marriage, then I say go for it. Only you know her and how she is.....just look-out for you.
Good Luck and many hugggss
Sunshyne
Re: Skeptical ATLfoodie: Thanks for the advice everyone.
My heart says yes, but my gut says no.
Unfortunately, I follow my heart more than my gut.
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