Re: Skeptical spooky: Call her and say "look, if you're going to tell me you want a divorce just tell me now like this so I can be alone for a while after you do. I don't want a nice evening ending in that and I don't want to try and have a nice evening after that."
Re: Skeptical ATLfoodie: Went and had dinner.
It was not a total no, but she asked me to move more of my stuff out. We had a long talk after dinner. I basically told her that when things were great, we were on top of the world, but as soon as we hit a rough spot it's all of a sudden "I'm miserable and want a divorce". I told her she hasn't even tried to help or communicate. We are going to the therapist tomorrow. We also agreed to not rush into anything (like divorce) head strong. We both acknowledged that it will be a lengthy separation.
I'll know more tomorrow after therapy. There is still that 5% chance of saving my marriage. We'll see.
