Getting uglier cheatedonagain: I put a call into my ex today telling him that my son has something to do with camp next week on his night to have him...which he usually doesn't take him anyway so I don't know why it would matter but I had to let him know so I look like I am doing everything right by the court.
By me telling him this I got screamed at...."its time for me to get over him and get over what he does and with who....its over".....I said I don't care about what you do unless it hurts our kids....."he's allowed to be with her kids and do whatever he wants with them"....I said yes you are but realize it is only hurting your son.....he screamed a little more and ended up hanging up on me. I hate the thought of him really thinking I'm not over him! I am over him...he's an as#hole! Does he really think I would take him back or want him back.....I think hes mental!
Re: Getting uglier td7629: They really are insane... try not to let him bother you.. perhaps he is not over the whole situation and wants to put it on you.. I go through the same thing with my ex idiot.. I called to tell him the boys report card grades and was told, I need to get a life.. I calmly said.. ok.. I will remember that the next time we go to court... So now.. I don't waste my time talking to him at all.. it's email or nothing.. I document everything on email.. this way I don't even need to talk to him.. He did file contempt charges on me saying that I won't talk to him and don't inform of things... I immediately brought up what he had said to me and that I refuse to talk to him on the phone ..it's email or nothing.. the judge agreed with me.. :)
Re: Getting uglier cheatedonagain: What is not to understand....you are hurting your own flesh and blood....not me! You live with another family....not me. You lowered yourself....not me! He's even mad at me for giving the finance company for his car his address. He hasn't paid his car payment in 3 months but for some reason I'm supposed to keep taking the calls for him!
Re: Getting uglier td7629: I know... they are so self centered and selfish and refuse to take any responsibility for their piss poor judgement... so to make themselves feel better they place the blame on us.. Trust me on this one... the email thing is great.. no more screaming matches and you have proof that you inform them of the things they are to know about the children..
Re: Getting uglier cheatedonagain: He doesn't have e-mail....I will have to mail him everything. Then he will say he never got it....I can just hear him now.
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