Re: I need profession ojar advice... madmax: Guess I need to learn to think for myself...
...I'm getting great advice going both ways.
I guess the group thing would be best and avoid the one-on-one for now.
I sure as hell don't want to put anyone else thru this type of torment.
I just talked to a couple of previously divorced co-workers...they kinda said the same thing..."You may be bringing baggage with you that you don't even know about".
The whole thing just f'n sucks...as you all well know. And I didn't ask for any of it. I feel like I'm being punished now for being committed then.
Re: I need profession ojar advice... hr: Commitment is great when two people share the same values. Right now have fun. You have a whole new opportunity awaiting you. Good friends, good whiskey--shall we go on. You are the only one who will know when its the right time. Have fun in the meantime.
Re: I need profession ojar advice... icwtsmnl: [quote author=poppy link=topic=32048.msg323195#msg323195 date=1153766476">
men and women have much different ideas of "companionship" and "nothing serious". to most gals, "companionship" is strictly platonic.
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If I read "just looking for companionship, nothing serious" in a guy's profile, i would think he was just looking to get laid.
Re: I need profession ojar advice... madmax: That's probably more true than false in my case too.
I'll be blunt...is that wrong with someone who just wants the same thing?
Re: I need profession ojar advice... superwife: madmax- it sucks being alone. You were suddenly forced to be alone, you were not consulted. That's how I feel, and that's how i justify going out and looking dating, companionship, sex, whatever. I don't blame you for feeling this way.
There are many people who feel the same way as you. I did, when i was first separated. So you will find it. I, personally want more than that now. i want that too, but more.
Just be hoinest with whomever you're with. And watch out, some of us chicks get attached. You need to make sure she knows what you are looking for
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