Re: When is it too soon? spooky: [quote author=cheatedonagain link=topic=32051.msg323300#msg323300 date=1153772992">
Will I get over the feeling of doing something wrong? Like I am cheating.
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Yes, now get the hell over it. ;)
Well if you've gotten set up for this weekend you've got further than I have yet. I asked a girl out for the first time since X and I think I could actually feel myself shaking a little (which I'm sure would have impressed her if she noticed, which really hope she didn't).
Re: When is it too soon? Whirlpool: In my opinion if you have to ask maybe it is too soon for you. Timing is different for everyone, if it does not feel right to you perhaps you are not ready? There is always going to be that anxiety getting back into it, but if you feel as though you are "doing something wrong" that may be a sign for you. There is no shame in taking your time for when it feels right.
Re: When is it too soon? madmax: WrlPl makes a good point...
...but...
...IMO it's going to feel awkward no matter how long you wait. IF you think you're ready...then take the plunge and get past the anxiety. If it really doesn't feel right...go with WrlPl's advice for the time being.
No one said it would be easy.
Re: When is it too soon? whythisnow: No, I disagree with too soon.
7 months is long enough. Are you going to wait 9 months?
Get out there and flail around the like the rest of us.
Nobody really knows what they are doing. So suck it up and go for it.
The worst thing that can happen is you end up in his baswment putting lotion on for buffalo Bill.. ;D
Okay, only joking about the Buffalo Bill part, there are worst thing like he could talk politics or taxes all night.
FIDO
Re: When is it too soon? trapped: [quote author=cheatedonagain link=topic=32051.msg323300#msg323300 date=1153772992">
Will I get over the feeling of doing something wrong? Like I am cheating.
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This is something I wonder to. How can I feel so guilty about trying to move on (havent even considered dating yet..Im just trying to go a whole day without him being perpetually on my mind) when hes already gone?
It makes absolutely zero sense. Just like the rest of it.
