Re: I feel like I'm 16
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Re: I feel like I'm 16 pluscachange: [quote author=single mother of 2 link=topic=32053.msg323382#msg323382 date=1153779970">
I know how you feel.  I've been separated for 2 years and just recently started dating.  I keep telling my self that I don't have time for a serious relationship.  But the guy I'm presently seeing is ready.  We haven't talk about it yet but, like you I tend to analyse.  I don't feel the sparks with him, but he's a nice guy.  The kind of guy that won't break my heart.
I'm thinking of breaking it off because he's getting to attached...and I'm not.  I have kids, he dosen't.  I have a house.. he lives with his parents.  I have responsibility..he has a job and friends!! 
Anyways, I guess time will tell!!!
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Nice guy who won't break your heart - no sparks.

2be would like to see this I bet.  Sorry, not poking at you, just noting something out loud.
Re: I feel like I'm 16 ATLfoodie: [quote author=FIDO link=topic=32053.msg323460#msg323460 date=1153789310">

Single mother of 2, loss that dork living at home with his parents.  He sounds more pathetic then the 40 yr old virgin.  Or ask his mom to do your laundry too.  LOL 
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I happen to live my mother at the present time due to being separated. I lived with her for a year after my first divorce because she got EVERYTHING. bank accounts, 401k, any investments, the house, plus a large child support everymonth. Some guys living at home are just trying to get back on their feet.


Re: I feel like I'm 16 spooky: [quote author=ATLfoodie link=topic=32053.msg323531#msg323531 date=1153794449">
[quote author=FIDO link=topic=32053.msg323460#msg323460 date=1153789310">

Single mother of 2, loss that dork living at home with his parents.  He sounds more pathetic then the 40 yr old virgin.  Or ask his mom to do your laundry too.  LOL 
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I happen to live my mother at the present time due to being separated. I lived with her for a year after my first divorce because she got EVERYTHING. bank accounts, 401k, any investments, the house, plus a large child support everymonth. Some guys living at home are just trying to get back on their feet.
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Yep. And some of us want the hell OUT!
Re: I feel like I'm 16 NHGIRL: Thanks for the advise!  I try not to analyze every little thing, but it is just hard, this is all new to me.  I do enjoy spending time with him and I'm nice and relaxed when I do see him. 

I'm just not into the head games, and I'm still trying to figure out what I want.  So yes if someone asked me out, I would say yes if I was interested, just to date other people. 

Maybe dating is something that you get used to after a little while, but I'm just starting it up again and it is pretty scary!

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