question for the guys Deadfish: Woops, I may have accidentally put my face and info on that plentyoffish.com site, and today I actually got a message from someone. I wasn't expecting to get one, haha! So like, here's my big worry. She said in the message that she wanted to meet this weekend. Yikes! I replied that I'd like to chat sometime (you know, not wanting to rush), but I dunno. And she has a kid. Don't think I'm a jerk or anything, but I'm dubious about meeting a girl/mom like this so suddenly...
Re: question for the guys Freckles: [quote author=Deadfish link=topic=32075.msg323572#msg323572 date=1153798830">
Woops, I may have accidentally put my face and info on that plentyoffish.com site, and today I actually got a message from someone. I wasn't expecting to get one, haha! So like, here's my big worry. She said in the message that she wanted to meet this weekend. Yikes! I replied that I'd like to chat sometime (you know, not wanting to rush), but I dunno. And she has a kid. Don't think I'm a jerk or anything, but I'm dubious about meeting a girl/mom like this so suddenly...
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Maybe She is Nice ? And likes You
:)
Re: question for the guys JNA: [quote author=Deadfish link=topic=32075.msg323572#msg323572 date=1153798830">
Woops, I may have accidentally put my face and info on that plentyoffish.com site, and today I actually got a message from someone. I wasn't expecting to get one, haha! So like, here's my big worry. She said in the message that she wanted to meet this weekend. Yikes! I replied that I'd like to chat sometime (you know, not wanting to rush), but I dunno. And she has a kid. Don't think I'm a jerk or anything, but I'm dubious about meeting a girl/mom like this so suddenly...
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A great Music Artist I favor sang...
Don't be to quick to judge somebody...
You might end up with your foot in your mouth...
Meaning some of the best women to meet are ones "with" kids
They are more responsible because they "have" to be ya know...
Or you could meet the one with none that is at the bar everynight looking for new potentials
Get my drift...
Been there done that ok
JNA
Outside of that...
Don't be so quick to jump on a personals ad
She may be leading you on... ;D
Re: question for the guys Deadfish: Okok, I'll try not to panic. I'm probably just overreacting and judging too fast like you say. Thanks!
Re: question for the guys superwife: Are you being a jerK? Not b/c you don't want to meet her so soon. Let her know thatyou're new at this and that you're not really looking to meet up with someone so quickly.
But please please please, don't judge her b/c she has kids. Speaking as a single mom, that is constantly on my mind whenever a single, childless guy e-mails me. And it has stopped me from initiating e-mails to childless guys. What is it that scares you about a chick with kids?
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