True... Fjord Girl: "Divorce is pretty much one of the biggest traumas the soul can withstand."
A friend of mine just told me that. It's so true!
Yesterday I was kinda talking to my EX in my head, going "Why didn't you just die? It would be easier!" -- I know it's stupid, but I was thinking if he had died at least I wouldn't have to deal with the rejection. That's what I tell my mom when she reminds me that she too lost her SO. I tell her she knows my dad loved her until his very last day, while I will always have to carry this pain.
Gawd, does anyone have happy pills today? I need one... or two...
And contrary to the popular belief, I do not love this man. I do not want him back. I'm through... But it still hurts and it bugs me to no end.
Re: True... ATLfoodie: Right there with you FJ.
Except I want mine back.
Re: True... giver: Count me in.....I told my aunt the other day, I'd never hurt a fly but I can honestly say that if he died right now yes I would grieve but I think I could hanldle that grief much easier than this crap. There would be finality and I wouldn't have so many questions in my ind. I think it would be easier on my daughter as well. Heck...we've been seperated for almost 15 week.....he's living with the OW and I'd still gladly pay for his funeral services and grave plot and all.....my only request would be that the OW didn't show her face!!! I'm telling you know....I've played it out in my head and it definetly seems like the easier thing!!!!!
Don't get me wrong...I'm not thinking of having anything done to him.......just saying that if God decided enough was enough with his life....that's be easier on me.
Re: True... CDNgurl: I think Divorce is number 2 or 3 on the life stressor scale... It is a MAJOR event.
Pat on the back for all of us for each and every good day that we have.
Is there something in the air? So many of us were having bad days yesterday, and it seems the clouds are hanging around.
I don't want mine back either Fjord Girl... because in a sense, the person I loved DID die. Ever see that movie "Invasion of the Body Snatchers"?
That is my ex... long gone.
Re: True... ATLGIRL777: Divorce = STRESS :P
