Re: Scared Sh*tless PennyLane: Do you guys still live together ALT?
My X and I went to 3 sessions. After the 3rd one, he didn't want to go back.
And didn't.
If this person doesn't fill your expectation, find someone else. Hopefully you will give it more then 3 sessions.
Re: Scared Sh*tless - UPDATE ATLfoodie: We had the therapy session. It from her declaring that she wants an all out divorce to her working with her therapist on trust issues and going slow and truly thinking through the process. We'll see. The counsellor basically told her not to rush into it because once you do you may have regrets about it later. She also encouraged me to keep seeing my therapist to work on my issues. This will be a lengthy separation if my wife follows the advice. The counsellor believes the marriage can be saved, but that my wife needs to work on it too. If she is not willing then there is no point.
I think my wife will at least take a month to see her therapist a couple of times before she does anything. This could turn out to be a very long and drawn out process.
Re: Scared Sh*tless JNA: My opinion and only mine ok...
Watch your P's & Q's
In otherwords be careful about how open you are with that T as I think she has just been advised by someone to go to Counselling first before filing for divorce...
That way it shows the court she made an effort
Sorry to say this as I know it is not what you want to hear but I have a dozen friends that would look out for you and tell you the same...
It happened to them
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: Scared Sh*tless ATLfoodie: We have no kids together, no joint accounts or investments, the same cars we came into the marriage with and a few pieces of art. She can have the artwork. The only thing is we share a cell phone plan because of the discount she gets from work and I can easily take my number with me if I need to.
The therapist just said if there is still love there then to thoroughly think this through and get help with her trust issues. She also told me to keep going to my therapist and to back off some more to give my wife some space. It may work and it may not, but the bottom line is she has another option then to rush headstrong into divorce.
Re: Scared Sh*tless trapped: Interesting.
Scared sh*tless is just how I described myself in a pm.
Great feeling, isnt it?
>:(
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