Re: I need some encouraging words :-( chaotic: [quote author=Crystal_Blue_024 link=topic=32503.msg331219#msg331219 ">
This is a big step for me to take MY life back... No longer allowing Drea to have control over me... I haven't even been to this club because of Drea, and that's dumb, because I love this place... I think any sooner it would have been too much for me to go there, but I think I'll be able to do it.. I really think I'll make it through tonight... I'm thinknig positive thougts!!
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This is YOUR club. It is where YOU go to have a good time and get your mind off things....Remember that. If she shows up, remember that. You do not have to avoid any place because of her. Think of the misery she will be in when she realizes that you are not focused on the hurt, thoughts of her or at home pining for her.
Re: I need some encouraging words :-( icwtsmnl: I'm so glad you're able to take this step. I think you've been doing a great job. a LOT of progress from when you first came here. have a great time!