Re: I wish... twine: so true fido, still a few months for me to go, but I have seen every dirty tactic there is pulled on me so far,(to no avail yet) my lawer seems to have handled things very good and without him representing me i think i would really be in a bad spot now, now when she tries to pull something instead of getting mad i just laugh at what a joke she really is.
Re: I wish... whythisnow: I hate to say it but they just figure they have nothing to lose.
So they unload every crazy trick in the book to trap, steal, screw the other person. Until it becomes a death match.
It's like a tornado, some people get destroyed, some get passed over but everyone remembers it. After the clean up you realize what you just lived thru and can't believe you put up with that crap.
FIDO
Re: I wish... momuv3: What amazes me is that the ones that left are the ones who get the nastiest and meanest. Do you think its guilt?
Re: I wish... whythisnow: Yes.... I think you hit it on the head.
They feel guilty, then get angry at them selves, then hate them selves and that hatred is directed to the STBX and the more they hate the better they must feel.
Plus, Most of them leave with a 1/2 baked plan that never really works out.
Then they get pissed at the STBX and just dumps on them.
I wish I did not know all of this,
FIDO
Re: I wish... abandoned1: Wow, you guys are scaring me - because I'm afraid you are probably right. Unfortunately. I've already seen the signs. As screwed up as it is, is that the other guy is controlling the situation. I know this for a fact. The last threatening correspondence (email) I got was from her email address - but signed by him. Are you f-ing kidding me??? Stay outta my f-ing business! But he won't, and she'll continue to let him control the situation, which is what makes it sooo unpredictable. This could be very, very bad. Wish me luck.
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