Re: Can't stop crying jannette Garcia: Yea I have focused on what I want...but that doesnt take away the feelings I have to this nondeserving jerk!!! I know you are trying to help me.....THANK YOU SO MUCH! YOU ROCK! and this is helping....but ughhhhh I hate him!!!~~! I can't believe he's puting me through this >:(
Re: Can't stop crying jannette Garcia: [quote author=justmeandmyson link=topic=32527.msg331469#msg331469 date=1154569243">
Hi Jannette. Crying does help. I think i cried so much that I don't have anymore tears :) I have heard this so many times but it is true....give it time hun. Talk about everything that you are feeling. Talk until you are blue in the face or until someone's ear falls off. Get mad when you are mad and cry when you are sad. Don't hold it in. He sounds very selfish and if he truly wanted to make things work he would have made an effort. My STBXH couldn't even lie that he would try he just said it was over and moved in with the other woman. I was shocked as shit!!! It has been 2 months and each day i feel alittle bit better. Keep writing and start focusing on you and what you need. Better things will come...I promise.
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I am so sorry you are going through this....ugh but is still agravating..I put 150% into it...I'm a good person I take very good care of our daughter..I work I go to school I dont deserve this...and after all I've done he's the one out having fun probably with his friends who knows...its just so depressing...I can't stand it
Re: Can't stop crying Whitley: You are feeling all of the emotions you are supposed to feel. I truly believe, now, that my life is going to get better and that I am going to be happier than I have ever been. You have so much to look forward to. Don't let this guy ruin your life for too long.
Re: Can't stop crying jannette Garcia: I'm really trying..I started a new job today...which I really like...and I let him ruin my day...even though I didnt show it...I was depressed all day....had a weird feeling in my stomach and felt like crying all day....I tried to think of the positive things in my life and that kept me going. But not I'm just really depressed...I hope tomorrow I dont feel as bad...but I'm going to have to see him tomorrow because he wants to see the baby...so I'll probably be depressed when I see him....ugh why me!?!?!??! I hate this!!!!!!! thank you guys for being there I dont know what I would do w/o this website
Re: Can't stop crying Whitley: Can your parents let him see the baby without him seeing you? I am finding that no contact is really what has been getting me through. With each day that I don't see him or have ANY contact with him, I get better and better. You need time and if you can find a way, I really recommend no contact.
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