Re: Can't stop crying jannette Garcia: I even sent him an email telling him how I feel and how he messed up and he doesnt even give a crap....i think what pisses me off the most is that he wont even admit he made amistake....and that's just wrong....
Re: Can't stop crying Whitley: It's getting late - what do you need pretty blowdried hair for anyway? :)Crying does help. Don't try to hold it in - the more you try the worse it gets. Exercise helps. Reading helps. Movies help. Do you have a good friend or family member you can call? That's what they're there for.
Re: Can't stop crying Whitley: Don't focus on him. Focus on yourself. What has been helping me lately is thinking about what I really want in a relationship and being totally honest with myself and I know that my x could never give me what I want, especially now.
Re: Can't stop crying jannette Garcia: Well I'm living with my parents...and now I'm in my room...with my daughter who's sleeping...I hate it when they see me cry so usually I keep it to myself....because my mom will start going about how much she hates him and so on...and I understand she loves me and she wants what's best for me...but I dont know I just dont like it.....I hate when people hear me cry...that's why I come here and you guys are great...but today I'm just having the worse day...I just realized is really over and I'm depressed and pissed and confused and every emotion you can think of :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
I hate feeling like this...I was fine before and if I wouldnt have believed his crap I wouldnt be in this position...now I know for next time
Re: Can't stop crying justmeandmyson: Hi Jannette. Crying does help. I think i cried so much that I don't have anymore tears :) I have heard this so many times but it is true....give it time hun. Talk about everything that you are feeling. Talk until you are blue in the face or until someone's ear falls off. Get mad when you are mad and cry when you are sad. Don't hold it in. He sounds very selfish and if he truly wanted to make things work he would have made an effort. My STBXH couldn't even lie that he would try he just said it was over and moved in with the other woman. I was shocked as shit!!! It has been 2 months and each day i feel alittle bit better. Keep writing and start focusing on you and what you need. Better things will come...I promise.
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