Re: I made a decision newts: You go girl!
Re: I made a decision bluskygrl: Good for you! I had to do the same thing. I think like most things he never would have gotten around to it :)
I think it always feels good to take charge of your life and head it in a positive direction, once you've figured out which way!
Just make sure the decree states he needs to pay you that back!
Blu
Re: I made a decision alonewith2: Your right, Blusky. The reason my stbx hasn't gotten around to it is because he doesn't want to pay his half. ::)
But I now feel like it's a small price to pay for that freedom. That one last final thread that's holding us together.
"Us" and "together" being two words I don't want to ever have to utter again!
Re: I made a decision LostTeacher: good for yo girl.
i didn't want to be the one to file....but he wasn't even close to starting the process...and i was tired of taking a back seat to all these major decisions being made about my life, so i did it myself.
it's a liberating feeling. you are taking control of your own destiny. it's well worth whatever money.
LT
Re: I made a decision yella: I'm glad you made this choice, Girl. I had to make the same one, and it did wonders for me. Good for you!!
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