Re: really need help right now icwtsmnl: i actually did laugh out loud at the "punch him in the face" suggestion. wow, i guess you really do read my posts, huh?
and for the last time, I'm a NYer, i just live in jersey for a mere year. :)
Smiley, no, thank god I do not report to him, although he does have a more senior position than me and we work in the same dept (no lectures please). We have been floating back and forth between not talking, and talking/emailing/joking/venting. you're totally right that I have to think of him as strictly a coworker, but ugh, that's ridiculously hard! especially with a broken heart. because underneath the business circumstances, I would think that with our past, he'd have a little more caring for my feelings. but stupid me, he didn't care for my feelings when we were actually together, why would he care now? I have to stop expecting him to be a decent person. i should know better by now.
Re: really need help right now madmax: If it was in an office environment, I think a PC monitor over the head more appropriate than a punch 8)
Re: really need help right now Bird: looks like the ojarian beavers have arrived and are helping repair the damn!!!!!
g-d damn their efficient!
Re: really need help right now icwtsmnl: they are the best beavers I know. :)
(uh, oh, I can sense the flood of beaver jokes headed this way)
Re: really need help right now Bird:
A-hahahaha...(the bird squawks....)