Do you think i should give up?(as much advice as possible please) simon lacey: Hi guys you are all probably familiar with my story, the past couple of weeks me and claire have had some good times, realy getting on well, looking into each other eyes and a little flirting, she knows how i feel about her, so why do this to me if she feels nothing for me, why be so mean, i asked her yesterday did she miss anything about me and she said no, now is that because we see each other every day for about an hour due to the kids, and we get on well and she has a nice tidy house now, gets to do her thing and when we do see each other she can still talk to me and i still stuff for her, i have the kids a lot of the time too so she has time to herself.
I dropped some shoes of tonight for one of my kids and i said, i got a couple of new pairs did she want to see and she said no i dont care what you got.
is she playing me should i still be nice and happy but not do things soley for her, i love doing things for her and she accepts them, she said she cares for me, but as i am starting to change my attitude i am more confident more happy, i give her more space i am not so obsessive anymore, i trust her more, i am doing this for me and my kids , she thinks i will never change that is what she has told me, but i am and i love the new me, being happy, i love it when we are happy together and she does too but sometimes she can be realy mean, .
any advice would be good
thanks guys simon
Re: Do you think i should give up?(as much advice as possible please) thejoker: the only advice I can give is: the more unavailable you are the more she will want you. Maybe.
Re: Do you think i should give up?(as much advice as possible please) ATLfoodie: My first wife and I spent 4 years hating each other. Now we are civil to the point of being friends. I stay over at her house to babysit my kids and her son from her second marriage just so she can go out on a date. We had some good times together, but that is not a road I would want to walk back down.
What is your motivation? Do you want to get back with her because you love her or are you trying to for the children's sake?
Once you figure that out then it will be easier for you to know what to do.
Re: Do you think i should give up?(as much advice as possible please) simon lacey: i love her i love my kids i know what she wants but she thinks i can not give it to her but i know i can,
Re: Do you think i should give up?(as much advice as possible please) jannette Garcia: Simon...I totally agree with Joker....he has a point...give her a chance to miss you....stay unavailable more often....let her see where she would be w/o you in her life.....remember....how can you miss someone if they never leave....anyways I hope it works out for you.
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