Re: I did it AGAIN.... God help me :*( BeatenNotBroken: Then don't give her the pleasure. Take her power away by not looking. I know its easier said than done but this will give you control and that is what you need right now. Be strong. We are with you.
Re: I did it AGAIN.... God help me :*( spooky: You're having a very common issue, but it lies mostly within yourself. If she sends voicemail the only thing you can do is get a new number that only your closest friends have. But the web page is totally in your power. She can only post and hope you go, but just because it's there doesn't mean you have to go. Find something that will be more inticing (non-destructive of course) than her web page and the updates it may give. I know what's it's like to want to know what's going on with the ex, and I just kept telling myself that it will get me nothing but pain. And this is a fact, not just something I tried to convince myself. It's really hard, but you'll feel so much better once you're in control of that urge. Good luck.
Re: I did it AGAIN.... God help me :*( Crystal_Blue_024: I've decided to delete my myspace page, to deter me from even going to the website.... I've also admitted to myself that I am cheating on my 60 day "no contact" rule by checking her page, because it's a form of keeping in contact with her... I'm starting day 1 tomorrow... I really am going to try this time... I have 60 days to go...
Re: I did it AGAIN.... God help me :*( spooky: While in one way I want to say you shouldn't because it's something you do for you and is a part of your life, I also want to say good move because it will supress the temptation. Tough call, but it will help. Besides, I guess you could start a new one once you've really gotten our strength built up. Maybe make it the start of whole new Crystal... cool prospect, I think.
Re: I did it AGAIN.... God help me :*( newts: [quote"> I've decided to delete my myspace page, to deter me from even going to the website.... I've also admitted to myself that I am cheating on my 60 day "no contact" rule by checking her page, because it's a form of keeping in contact with her... I'm starting day 1 tomorrow... I really am going to try this time... I have 60 days to go... [/quote">
Good decision. This is really a big deal and I am proud of you!
I would suggest changing you numbers though.
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