He makes me so mad momuv3: I posted last week that my stbxh had "papers" for me to sign and get back to him that same night. I thought that he filed. When he dropped them off it was from a legal document place and it was these asset/liabliity/community property worksheets that he wanted me to sign. I looked at them and he put zeros in the columns for all, even my side. Like he prefilled them out for me saying we had nothing. I called my attorney and he said not to sign them. They are not official papers and he needs to go file and do it the proper way. I don't remember if i told you all, but before marriage stbxh signed a note to me for a loan that I made to him that he never paid off. If I would have signed this paper, I would have signed any rights I would have had to collecting that money. I refused to sign them and told him to go file official papers and have me served.
Haven't heard from him since last week and I finally text messaged him today saying he needed to switch his vehicle over to his own insurance and he needed to remove his boat from my property soon. He has nowhere to put it and doesnt want to deal with it. He sent one back asking me if i was signing those papers AGAIN. I sent one back saying they are not official papers and he needed to go and file. We finally talked on the phone. He wants me to split the money for the legal document place with him on top of me having an attorney look at the papers. He wants the legal doc place, thats fine. I have to have someone to protect my assets. I have to say I have alot more to protect than he does. I have a home that was mine before marriage, and that loan I made to him. He has nothing but debts so he has nothing to lose and everything to gain. I know he is worried I will come after him for that money.
Oh, the kicker statement he said today was....after all this time, don't you trust me??? Do you really think I would do that?
OMG, is he kidding? I said that all of his decisions thus far have been completely irrational and immature. He is an addict that chose his drugs over his family. What is there to trust?
Re: He makes me so mad BeatenNotBroken: You are wise. He is proven to not be trustworthy. Do everything on your terms and don't give him an inch. Good luck.
Re: He makes me so mad momuv3: I don't know why I am waiting for him to file. I guess the part of me says, you started this now you end it. He needs to follow thru with his decisions. I am tired of making his life easy and will do it no more. He is crying how broke he is. I couldn't care less. I hope he has nothing. He thinks I am doing it to hang on to him. Hardly, I am not filing so he for once has to scramble up the money and take care of things. I know. Lame excuse.....
Re: He makes me so mad BeatenNotBroken: He is just stalling. This will help you both receive the closure you deserve.
