Re: Day by day.... momuv3: Good job. That is a nice feeling. Isn't it a strange feeling that as disappointed you are and sad about a situation you realize it may be for the best at this point? I felt that same thing last night after a converstation with my stbxh. No, it doesn't mean I want to be his buddy like he would like, but it means I am at a point in my heart where I can honestly try and move on and let go.