My sad sad tale Deadinside: I don't know if this is going to help, but what can it hurt. I will start with July 11th. I came home and discovered that my husband had packed some of his stuff, and was sitting in his chair telling me how unhappy he was. We talked for about an hour and in the end he just said he needed time to figure things out. I was angry, shocked and hurt. He was telling me how unhappy he has been for months and that he just couldn't "do it" anymore. I asked him more than once if there was someone else and he said no. Fast forward to the next morning, not that I have slept much from the night forward. Anyway, I get this phone call, from one of his co-workers husbands. My husband is an RN, and I found out from this man on the phone, that his wife was gone (she is a CNA at the hospital where my husband works) and that my husband and this guys wife are apparently having an affair. I went to my mother in laws and confronted my husband and he confirmed the affair. I thought that my life was over that day. I am slowly learning that it isn't over, but it has really changed. Since then, my husband has moved out and we were talking about every few days. Then I called him, last Tuesday, to see if he would come with me to a counseling session. He said that he couldn't and that there were things I wasn't aware of. I asked if the OW was pregnant, I knew that they hadn't used protection. She is. I forgot to mention, the OW, is 22 with 3 babies all under the age of 3 her youngest in 9 or 10 months old.
What the hell has happened to my life!!!
Re: My sad sad tale crushedman: I am so sorry this has happenned to you. There is nothing that I can say to make your pain go away, but I will say a prayer for you. You don't deserve this shit. You will get through this.
cm
Re: My sad sad tale Ramsey: I'm so very sorry that you are going through this Joyce. It's an awful horrible thing. Like CM said, there's nothing anyone can say to make you feel better, but know that we're all here to listen to you. So post often and say whatever you feel like saying.
My spouse left me about four weeks ago, so it's still fresh for me. I'm a little better now, but it's up and down.
It's extremely hard, but please take care of yourself as best as you can. It's going to be hard, but you can do it. You really can. Find support anywhere you can. Take comfort in any support you are comfortable with. Family, friends, support groups, Ojar ...
We're here for you if you want. Take care.
Ramsey
Re: My sad sad tale spooky: Boy this sort of story is getting far too common. You feel like everythings going down the shitter right? Well, no matter what you feel you did wrong, his actions (and hers) were worse. Try to impove yourself now and keep yourself to a higher standard. If you want him o gome along with you and he is willing to do wome work, great. But right now take care of yourself. There's plenty of good people here and they all will do what they can to help you. Sorry you've found yourself in this situation.
Re: My sad sad tale newts: [quote"> I forgot to mention, the OW, is 22 with 3 babies all under the age of 3 her youngest in 9 or 10 months old. [/quote">
I am sorry dead, however, your husband is a complete loser and you are so much better off without him and you will realise this day by day.
You don't deserve that! Keep posting and keep your chin up, this will get better slowly but surely.
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