ARGH! jannette Garcia: I hate feeling down! I hate it so much!!! I hate the fact that he came back after we broke up! If he just would've kept his mouth shut and would've not come back I would've been fine right now like I was then when I thought nothing could be done about it and was dealing with it! I hate this!! I"m angry! I'm so angry at him! I hate that I keep doing this to myself!! Why the hell do I keep listening to what he has to say!! I dont know!!
Ok done, done complaining for now. thanks
Re: ARGH! JNA: At one point all I had was hate for my ex...
She played the push/pull and some of the other things she did I will leave off this board as some are unbelievable
Trust me on that one...
In time that hate would fade in and out between wanting to be back with her to hate again
I know those feelings all to well...
Funny thing is how while we are going through this they have moved on with there lives knowing that they can come back anytime they please
Or at least they thing that to be so...
Jannette wrote: "I hate that I keep doing this to myself!! Why the hell do I keep listening to what he has to say!!"
That is just it...
We do it to ourselves. My ex came back twelve times before it was over for me. I got suckered everytime...Given she was a beautiful woman...But she is not the only beautiful woman I have ever dated
It is this...
Some people have a real nack at manipulating others...They can turn on the "Charm" like us flipping a light switch per se
With her it was me feeling sorry for her...That is what she does best and is still doing it I hear tale of
Never again with me though...
It is why you see the sig here that I have on every board I post on
"Dont listen to what they say...Watch what they do...Action speak louder than words my friend"
Everything mine said was a lie...But when you are attracted to that person you tend to listen more than watch...IMO
In the end though...They finally burn the last post holding up the bridge down no matter how much we care for them...
You will know when it is time to not "Listen" to him anymore
We all have our time or chances we give to someone before we are done with them
You will get there...
Stay Strong
JNA
