Re: HIS WEEKEND confused101: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
Re: HIS WEEKEND PennyLane: That wouldn't be a good move at all on his part to introduce her to the OW at this point. No more time then he's spent with her needs to be a daughter/dad weekend. With your daughter still under a tremendous amount of pain, meeting and/or seeing with the OW would make matters worse.
Like you, it was hard for me at first because our friends were his friends. I ended up reconnecting with a lot of my former friends who THANKFULLY helped me through everything. I didn't know about OJAR at that time. Boy had I known about this site it sure would of sped up the grieving process.
If you don't have anyone to call or do something with, you know we're on here for you.
Re: HIS WEEKEND snkpack: I feel for you. More than you can possibly ever know. I hope it works out for you.
Re: HIS WEEKEND giver: [quote author=sosad05 link=topic=33023.msg339413#msg339413 date=1155327811">
In fact, I got so psycho I would take pictures of them before/after. But, after time I realized...they will be ok.
Rent some good movies.
Trust me, I completely understand the pain you're going through. ((((HUGS))))
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talk about psycho...last night I wanted to pack her up in the car and just RUN. But I couldn't do that to her either.
Thought about renting stepmom...lol. My favorite line in that movie is when the little boy says "Mom, if you want me to hate her I will."
I hate you had to experience this previously...but I'm glad you shared it because I certainly feel like the only one in the world that has dealt with it.
Re: HIS WEEKEND giver: [quote author=PennyLane link=topic=33023.msg339407#msg339407 date=1155327544">
No more time then he's spent with her needs to be a daughter/dad weekend. With your daughter still under a tremendous amount of pain, meeting and/or seeing with the OW would make matters worse.
If you don't have anyone to call or do something with, you know we're on here for you.
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PL...my thoughts exactly...but he's being so selfish right now that I'm afraid he wont want ot give up time with the OW to be with just her. Guess we'll have to see how it works. I know he can't have her there overnight with the OW because I ahd that added to the papers. Thanks for the support. I'll probly be posting ALL weekend.
