Re: HIS WEEKEND snkpack: I feel for you. More than you can possibly ever know. I hope it works out for you.
Re: HIS WEEKEND PennyLane: That wouldn't be a good move at all on his part to introduce her to the OW at this point. No more time then he's spent with her needs to be a daughter/dad weekend. With your daughter still under a tremendous amount of pain, meeting and/or seeing with the OW would make matters worse.
Like you, it was hard for me at first because our friends were his friends. I ended up reconnecting with a lot of my former friends who THANKFULLY helped me through everything. I didn't know about OJAR at that time. Boy had I known about this site it sure would of sped up the grieving process.
If you don't have anyone to call or do something with, you know we're on here for you.
Re: HIS WEEKEND sosad05: Hey sweetie....Take a deep breath. I went thru this EXACT same thing and feelings last year. In fact, I got so psycho I would take pictures of them before/after. But, after time I realized...they will be ok. In fact, now I actually somewhat look forward to the time their gone because it gives me a chance to get caught up in cleaning or I can go do something for myself. If I focus on what I can do for myself, it makes it easier. I know it still hurts like hell though. :'( Try to make a plan of what you are going to do this wkd. Have girls night out. Or, go get a pedicure. Rent some good movies. Just make a plan so you don't dwell on them being gone.
Trust me, I completely understand the pain you're going through. ((((HUGS))))
Re: HIS WEEKEND confused101: Next time, just send a clone of your daughter with him. That will make him think he's being treated fairly, and you'll laugh because you pulled one over on him.
Re: HIS WEEKEND giver: [quote author=PennyLane link=topic=33023.msg339407#msg339407 date=1155327544">
No more time then he's spent with her needs to be a daughter/dad weekend. With your daughter still under a tremendous amount of pain, meeting and/or seeing with the OW would make matters worse.
If you don't have anyone to call or do something with, you know we're on here for you.
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PL...my thoughts exactly...but he's being so selfish right now that I'm afraid he wont want ot give up time with the OW to be with just her. Guess we'll have to see how it works. I know he can't have her there overnight with the OW because I ahd that added to the papers. Thanks for the support. I'll probly be posting ALL weekend.
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