anniversary...sigh...what the *%^& is going on!? jenn: Have been doing really well. Exercising, doing fun stuff w/ kiddos, major cleaning and organizing the house, reading, making plans w/ friends, etc. Told x that I didn't want to have contact...trying the whole 60 days x-de-tox thing. Didn't do a thing today. It's our 2nd anniversary. He actually called me this morning to say, "happy anniversary." I asked him what I'm supposed to be celebrating exactly? The fact that he says he still loves me that he doesn't feel like working on our marriage right now? I am going to the movies with a friend tonight. X actually wants to go to the movies 2morrow nite. I don't get it?! It's been rougher today than I had suspected. I just want him to either say that he loves me enough to work on it or leave me the hell alone. Going to movies and an occasional booty call does not qualify as "working on it". Six months to go...he actually told me that he would drag out the divorce, if I file in Feb. b/c he loves me and wants to himself more time to "think" about things?! What is this?
Re: anniversary...sigh...what the *%^& is going on!? justchar: Blah the dreaded anniversary. I still lived with my ex at the time of our 5 year anniversary...and not one of us mentioned it to the other. Crappy thing was nobody knew yet and our families were calling and we had to play it off :(
I think he justs wants the booty call until he finds something else...this kind of relationship is not healthy for you. I say file for divorce and let him play with himself.
Re: anniversary...sigh...what the *%^& is going on!? spooky: That's an odd thing to do... And I agree, occational movies and bedroom romps isn't working in it.
Re: anniversary...sigh...what the *%^& is going on!? jenn: Thanks guys. The movie was alright. But at least I spent some time with a good friend. She's hilarious, but I still just couldn't seem to completely enjoy myself. I told him tonight that I wouldn't go to the movies and that I don't want him to call me and that I am filing for a divorce in Feb. I do alright and am feeling good and then he calls me and down I go. How do they know the perfect time to call?
Re: anniversary...sigh...what the *%^& is going on!? JNA: [quote author=jenn link=topic=33027.msg339638#msg339638 date=1155353047">
How do they know the perfect time to call?
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Never did figure that one out...
She always called me when I was most weak
It seemed as if when I was strong she never called...
At another site I am on during the day they call it a "Hoover"
When they come back around to "suck" the rest of the life out of you...LOL
Some say they have a sixth sense about when to call if they are and abusive person...
I don't hold much value to that but it could be true I guess
Just my 2-sense
JNA
