Re: Friday Night... sosad05: [quote"> So how do you get past the hurt feeling of getting "burned" by someone you trusted with all of your heart...
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This is a good question. I myself wonder about this in my current relationship. I automatically assume the worst. I think we just have to somehow realize that the "new" person is a completely different person that has nothing to do with the previous situation. I by no means have mastered this so I'll be curious to see what other have to say too.
Re: Friday Night... superwife: [quote author=sosad05 link=topic=33055.msg339713#msg339713 date=1155385594">
[quote"> So how do you get past the hurt feeling of getting "burned" by someone you trusted with all of your heart...
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This is a good question. I myself wonder about this in my current relationship. I automatically assume the worst. I think we just have to somehow realize that the "new" person is a completely different person that has nothing to do with the previous situation. I by no means have mastered this so I'll be curious to see what other have to say too.
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What she said.
BTW, JNA, I'm surprised to hear this question come out of your mouth...
Re: Friday Night... Fjord Girl: I have no answer for this one because I'm on the same boat, always scared to get close to someone. I guess you will know when you're ready to trust again. No one who's been hurt as much as we've been hurt will trust easily; the key is hoping for something good to happen and treat others the same way we want to be treated, give them some value.
Re: Friday Night... thehitekrednek: Trust is earned, my friend. Of course you're not going to trust any woman on the first date, or second , or third. If you open yourself to her, she will respond openly. If she thinks for a second that you're questioning her intensions, she'll put up walls. Keep your expectations low, instead of dating for a potential SO, date with the intentions of making a new friend, then go from there. You will trust again, and pprobably won/t even realize it.
Re: Friday Night... superwife: [quote author=Spike link=topic=33055.msg339724#msg339724 date=1155388394">
Keep your expectations low, instead of dating for a potential SO, date with the intentions of making a new friend, then go from there. You will trust again, and pprobably won/t even realize it.
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Damn spike. You are so right. I'm goin' with that theory now. That way, no real disappointment.
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