i have been trying but ................... lunatweeker:
im living in an apt. now with my 2 boys and my soon to be x son in law
I buy her flowers and leave them for her to find or somethimes i just give them to her and shes says thank you
yesterday l got an hallmark card and wrote sweet words in it and left it in her car to find
she said nothing to me about the card and bitches at me for one of the boys behaving badly wile i was at work
im thinking its over and part of mes wanting it over....... i was so pissed
but we have an appointment with marriage councler on monday
now she leaves me a message about are you going to go shopping with me for the childrens school clothes ( ie are you going to drop 200.00 on school supplys)
im fighting my battle over porn and sometimes i WIN and now this girls hitting on me at work she asked me if i ever heard of revenge sex?
what do you guys and girls think i should do????
Re: i have been trying but ................... momuv3: [quote author=lunatweeker link=topic=33068.msg339834#msg339834 date=1155409844">
she asked me if i ever heard of revenge sex?
what do you guys and girls think i should do????
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Ummm....as nice as that may sound, I would pass. Revenge? Seems like this woman has the potential to go and tell your wife stuff that may cause more problems. Work on getting out of your marriage if thats what you are doing and then move on to a relationship or just casual sex. Not revenge.
Re: i have been trying but ................... Older Guy: Why are you giving her cards with sweet stuff in it if you want it to be over ?
Re: i have been trying but ................... lunatweeker: i dont want it to be over
but what i want at this point just dosnt matter anymore
she asked me to move out
im thinking that ............. shes wanting it to be over
but if thats the case why has she agreed to go to councling???
see my confusion ???
no the revenge sex thing is that girls way of getting back at her husband and i would be just the "tool" she would use
part of me wants it to be over so i can get on with my LIFE
and part of me wants her "thats why i give her flowers and cards"
Re: i have been trying but ................... Mooneyes: If you don't want it to be over, then don't even consider having sex with anyone. Revenge sex is for when you want things to be downright hostile and never repairable. Not even a good idea if you are trying to co-parent... especially if you are trying to save the marriage.
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