everyone here has heard my story and some have damn me to hell for it lunatweeker: my daughter asked me why this week and after texting her back and forth i went to her house and tried to explain and asked her for forgiveness
she said that i should go into some kind of porn addiction councling and i have made an appointment to start going
the healing has started between her and i and now i can only hope that i can patch things up with my wife
i have no hope that i can save my marriage and i think shes made up her mind along time ago that the marriage is over......................
like so many stories on this board
one of the people has been thinking about it for a long time and has went thur all the emotions and is ready to start life over without you
but shes still wanting to go to marriage councling??? ???
WHY???
can anyone tell me WHY???
you people are the smartest people i have ever heard talking about this subject
so can anyone tell me WHY???
Re: everyone here has heard my story and some have damn me to hell for it BeeAmaz: Maybe she wants you to go to counseling so that things will be smoother between the two of you for your children's sake... I don't know.
Re: everyone here has heard my story and some have damn me to hell for it ajw: because even if you cant salvage the relationship as husband and wife,you still need to salvage it as parents,going to marriage counselling is not only to try and save your marriage it can also be so you can disengage and remain friends.......or maybe she just wants to give it one last chance..........who knows.....you will have to go and find out
Re: everyone here has heard my story and some have damn me to hell for it momuv3: Good that you are getting counseling for your addiction. Thats a huge step and it probably means alot to her.
Whether you end up at marriage counseling or not, make sure you keep with the porn counseling. Addictions of any kind are destructive to a relatinship. I know.
Don't read into much on why she wants marriage counseling. Just go and see what happens.
Re: everyone here has heard my story and some have damn me to hell for it lunatweeker: i put a candle on the dashboard of her car last night
one with seashells and starfish in the wax
knowing that she had to work this morning
and she thanked me for it
when she dropped off one of my kids for me to watch wile shes at work
