Re: how sweethome: Hi Spikey's Baby~
My opinion, move on while you can. Be grateful that he's gone, and concentrate on you. Your kids are much older than mine (2 & 4), so they can see, to an extent, what's going on.
I don't know how they move on like they do. It's amazing to me. It's heartbreaking. What he is doing is illegal, at least in the US, so depending on if you want to pursue it or not, you probably could get him in some deep trouble.
You've got a wonderful dad, and he's been a huge support to me and many, many other here, so for that, you can be grateful.
((Hugs))
You'll make it through, just like the rest of us are having to - and you'll be a stronger and happier person for it - once it's behind you.
Feel free to PM me if you want ;)
Re: how PennyLane: DOn't know what your state law is but where I'm at, if the adult is over 21 thats considered statutory (sp?) rape.
So sorry your going through that. That's sick. Especially given you have 2 young children.
Re: how JNA: Welcome to Michaels Board
Because he is "infatuated"...
Then a little sick too
Just in my opinion...
Keep in mind infatuation wears off then what does he have left
how wrote: "he says he still loves me but HOW can that be when he is tearing my heart out?"
Don't ever listen to what they say...Watch what they do
Actions speak louder than words my friend...
My ex once said "Do you know how much I care about you"
After ripping my heart out and telling people horrible lies about me because of her insecurity...
So I was like OH explain to me how this is "caring" for me...LOL
If this is caring then I definately am looking in the wrong dictionary
Sorry this is happening to you how...
Keep in mind though...The grass is not always greener on the other side
So when he comes crawling back I would serious think about not taking him back...
Although he may be in prison by then
No Kidding...
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: how smokin: is it against the law up there? if so, i would surely tip off her parents by annonomous note, and i would also put have him seek help before seeing the kids again.......
thats only 7 years older than his daughter...........
people change, and i guarentee he will at some time, tell you anything he needs to, to use you to get what he wants. make sure you hold your ground, and if this is what he wants, make him pay for it, by not giving in to him......
have him seek counciling before even attempting to think about it.
sorry your in the siituation. welcome to ojar.......
Re: how sosad05: Chum...are her parents aware that she is involved with a 26-year old married (?) man with 2 children?? I would be tempted to send them a nice little letter along with a family portrait. I know I would freak the f*ck out if my 16-yr-old daughter were in that situation!!!
As far as your x, he is sick and wrong. What kind of example is he setting for your children? Will it be ok when your daughter is 16 to go find a 26 yr old man w/ kids??
[quote"> Don't ever listen to what they say...Watch what they do
Actions speak louder than words my friend... [/quote">
I agree with JNA. Words mean nothing.
Stay strong. Stay away from him. Only contact him if its for visitation with the kids. You deserve a MAN...not a high school boy.
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