Re: now what... JNA: [quote author=vjsauce link=topic=33511.msg347839#msg347839 date=1156394466">
i'm not using him as a convenience. after so many yrs of being told awful stuff it is hard to believe any nice things. i get scared so i push.
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I know...
You do the Push/Pull because you were abused Emotionally...
There is a reason for this
JNA
Talk to me in PM sometime ok...
It's better that way
Re: now what... vjsauce: i'm not using him as a convenience. after so many yrs of being told awful stuff it is hard to believe any nice things. i get scared so i push.
now what... vjsauce: ok i come and go on here. i'm back now. i've once again moved. at the moment i am staying with my "boyfriend". it just makes me feel weird to say that. anyways i have never lived with another man except my ex husband. and i don't think i like it. it's just weird. is this normal?? this man is really good to me and my kids. so that is not the problem
Re: now what... chaotic: Just like any move, its going to feel strange for a little while.
Did you move in due to convienience? Do you want to live with him? What are your reasons?
Re: now what... vjsauce: i was living about 2 hrs. away. i was here every weekend. it was for a lot of reasons. better schools for my kids. better job opportunities for me. i do have a lot of family here. a part of me wanted to live w him. but now i'm not so sure. it's just different. i wanted to have a relationship but now it seems like i'm in over my head.
