Re: now what... NYCkey: [quote author=vjsauce link=topic=33511.msg347068#msg347068 date=1156300200">
i do. i feel bad but i can't help it. is that bad? well i know it's bad. i don't mean to do it.
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This is what I don't understand about women in general. You say he is good to you and your kids and that living with him has allowed you to have better schools for the kids, be close to family, etc. If he hasn't done anything bad then why push him away?
Do you feel as if you are using him for convenience sake or are you just having cold feet?
Re: now what... JNA: [quote author=vjsauce link=topic=33511.msg347068#msg347068 date=1156300200">
i do. i feel bad but i can't help it. is that bad? well i know it's bad. i don't mean to do it.
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No it is not "Bad"
Talk to me sometime in PM ok...
JNA
I know you don't mean too...
Re: now what... vjsauce: i'm not using him as a convenience. after so many yrs of being told awful stuff it is hard to believe any nice things. i get scared so i push.
Re: now what... JNA: [quote author=vjsauce link=topic=33511.msg347839#msg347839 date=1156394466">
i'm not using him as a convenience. after so many yrs of being told awful stuff it is hard to believe any nice things. i get scared so i push.
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I know...
You do the Push/Pull because you were abused Emotionally...
There is a reason for this
JNA
Talk to me in PM sometime ok...
It's better that way
Re: now what... shygirl2006: I think it is not such a good idea if you are so up in the air to be living with a man with your children. They will grow attached and comfortable and if you two break up your children's hearts will break as well.
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