Re: Can life go on? iya: my heart goes out to you. i am going thru a seperation right now and will probably be soon facing a divorce too. i never thought my life would come to this. i can't eat, the only difference between you and me is that i cannot get myself to sleep. i have a young child and i am like a zombie right now. i am so glad that i have family here for me to help me with at least my daughter. i have never been like this before when we fight, but the again the reality of a divorce has never been so real and close. i hope and pray that all of us going thru this nightmare roller coaster will see the end of the rainbow one day soon :(
Re: Can life go on? twiceover411: I have been apart with my ex for 6 weeks, and I still feel like I want to DIE! I am going through the motions of life, but that;s just it, motions. All I do is work. Today, I stayed in bed all day, and then went to work.
I have a seven yr. old and I feel horrendously guilty. She sees my crying all the time and looking just miserable, and she asks me why I look so mad. She handled this alot better than I am.
It was a shock to me, as I literally came home from work one morning and he told me to be out of the house by that night. Something you hear about, never expecting it. Everyone tells me it wasn't about a fight that happened a week ago, but rather, it was something he had planned for a while.
I was doing just OK, and then I come to find out that a mere 6 weeks later, he has someone else living in the house. I don't know who....at best, I have a hunch it may be his sister, at worse, his first wife or a new broad. But, he is obviously moved along. I try to justify this in my mind he is not coming back, but, it helps no other.
So, I was ok for a while, and this week I have been back to hysterical crying and wearing sweats with no makeup...a party for one pity party.
