Re: Can life go on? Ramsey: We understand Zerpos. We've all felt the same thing. It's been a little more than a month for me since my separation and I still feel alone and worthless and scared sometimes. The first week has horrible, but slowly (very slowly) it got a little less bad. When you can, try to do what you can to take care of yourself. It's okay for us to feel our emotions. Just make sure to do what you can to take care of yourself. Eat what you can. Seek whatever support you can when you feel up to it. You're not going to feel like it, but do it anyway. Any little bit of support or activity helps.
Please take care and keep posting Zerpos. PM people if you feel like it. Feel free to PM me if you'd like.
Ramsey
Re: Can life go on? brielle123: I know that I responded to you before, but I just really want you to know and believe that it does get better, trust me. Just like everyone else here, we have all felt exactly the same way that you feel right now. Some of us still do, it is just getting a tiny bit better everyday.
I am like you when I fall into a depression, I don't eat. I wonder sometimes if it is somewhat of a control thing. When you are going through this pain and you feel like everything in your life is completely beyond your control, eating is one thing that is within your grasp. It might sound dumb, but it made some sense to me. I was 106 pounds before my husband told me that he didn't love me anymore and I got down to under than 100 lbs in a week. I felt so nauseated everytime that I even thought about food, my stomach was in a knot and I really physically could not eat. I tried and tried, but I just couldn't. My mom was afraid that I was going to have to be hospitalized, but luckily it didn't come to that and after a couple of weeks, or I guess as time went by and I started to kinda awake from the dead I started to eat a little more every day.
At least try to drink something, whether it be Ensure or something with some protein. At least keep yourself hydrated, I know you feel like you want to die right now and you don't care what happens to your body, but in reality your heart is going to keep beating and this traumatic experience will not kill you, so you need to take care of yourself. I know it is easier said than done, but please, please know that you will get through this.
I am here for you so please PM me anytime.....take care.
Re: Can life go on? yodafool88: i asked the same question, and i still am asking it. i feel like life cant go on i feel alone and i feel like i have lost not just my love but any sence of self. i feel nothing really. its hard to even describe. but i know it will end and if it does not, then maybe well i dont know but im just gunna say its gunna end! i dont work i go to school and my college starts tomorrow. so i know that will help and we just have to remember that time heals all wounds, just not very fast! we just got to hang on.
Re: Can life go on? asd.me: RIGHT NOW I WISH LIFE WOULDN'T GO ON.. MY HUSBAND LEFT ME 5 MONTHS AGO WITH THE INTENTION THAT WE WOULD TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT AND I HAVE HELD ON TO THAT LIKE A LIFE RAFT. WELL, HE NEVER STOPPED TALKING WITH MY EX-FRIEND THAT HE "CARES" ABOUT NOW. WELL, HE MOVED HOME 2 WEEKS AGO WITH THE INTENTION IT WAS OVER WITH HER AND WE WOULD TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT. NOW HE TELLS ME HE DOESN'T KNOW IF HE CAN LET HER GO. I DON'T KNOW IF HE WILL COME HOME AFTER WORK TONIGHT OR GO BACK TO HIS MOTHER'S. ALL I CAN DO IS CRY, I CAN'T EAT, AND ALL I WANT TO DO IS SLEEP. BUT MY KIDS KEEP MAKING ME KEEP MOVING. MY WORLD IS ENDING AND I AM POWERLESS TO STOP IT. HOW DO YOU HEAL THE PAIN AND HOW DO YOU LET GO?!?! I HAVE LOVED MY HUSBAND SINCE I WAS 15 YEARS OLD, MARRIED AT 19, AND NEVER BEEN WITH ANYONE ELSE. HOW DO I LET THAT GO?! I JUST WISH I COULD MAKE THE PAIN GO AWAY. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Re: Can life go on? yodafool88: im just glad i found this site because i know im not alone in the ways im feeling. i wish i could hug all of you and i wish yall could hug me. today was just really really bad. i went to my doctor and we went over my whole break up again and even she was confused by what my ex said and did. i just feel like life cant go on, i am so in love with him, he was the best thing that ever happened to me. he was my rock, my strenth, my heart. and now hes gone. and how can he just go on and be ok???? if he loved me so much how can he not feel like i am? i just dont understand and dont know how to keep going when this is not right, its just not, i miss him so much.
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