Re: Is it right..... francesca: I guess every day is going to feel a little different. It has been a year and 8 months since we were officially split and it's been 8 months since the divorce. Not a day goes by where it doesn't come into my mind, even though i have "moved on". I guess it is just hard...and I don't think we ever fully let go in a sense that these people were a huge par t of our lives at one point. We married them and marriage is huge. If they didn't "want us" and wronged us, etc., and turned our lives into an emotional freaking rollercoaster ride, we just have to do our best.
Re: Is it right..... chaotic: Feel, its funny sometimes where we can have the best advice for others that are hurting, but fail to follow it ourselves.
For instance, in your post, you say things that you know you need to do, but for whatever reason "cant".
One thing you may need to do is try to realize that your X is no longer the same man that fathered your child. He is no longer the same man that you fell in love with. Something in him changed. I dont know what it was, but he is no longer that man. When you can stop looking at him as that man, you will be ready to take the next step....Putting him out of your mind and heart.
