Addicted to hurting confused101: It's interesting to read posts as time goes on. You have to wonder if there are some who are addicted to the hurt that they feel. It makes me think if everything in the world was right for them, they would still need to hurt because it has become comfortable for them.
Is this possible?
Re: Addicted to hurting So_Lost: [quote author=Rainking link=topic=33543.msg347234#msg347234 date=1156342250">
It's interesting to read posts as time goes on. You have to wonder if there are some who are addicted to the hurt that they feel. It makes me think if everything in the world was right for them, they would still need to hurt because it has become comfortable for them.
Is this possible?
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Yes... it is very possible, in fact more then possible, it happens for sure. I know that when I was depressed, and things started to look up, I would find a way to stress about something. Start a crisis somehow, or even ruin what was getting better. I did this because I felt like it was easier to stay at the bottom, then to get happy again, and then have it taken away all over.
Its a trap that people get into when they get depressed.
Re: Addicted to hurting C-Note: Interesting. I like this thought. I'll try to avoid the cycle too.
Re: Addicted to hurting sneaker: I know what you mean, I've had that impression sometimes.
But not in may case. Everything in the world was fine for me and it all came crashing down. Can't wait to get back up there!
Re: Addicted to hurting Feel: Rainking, great post.... I love the way you think...
You see this is what I feel that without hurt I can't go on... I want to get my mental state out of that feeling... I guess it stems from seeing my parents always hurting eachother when I was growing up... do you think it comes from the upbringing? Do you think though people may really be acustomed to really not know ing any better?
Well, I saw what my parents went through and that I don't want for myself... them throwing things in eachothers faces but not changing or fixing the problem...
Well I am trying to not folllow their footsteps... so I walked away from the constant betrayal from my husband!
I am seeking help from you guys hear at OJAR, to help me realize there is a life out there where you aren't supposed to accept the hurt and abuse from assholes!
Does that help?
Yes this is what you become used too... it is a trap and cycle that you need to learn how to get out of!
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