Re: I cant handle this Feel: Jodie,
I am so sorry, I know it hurts.... damb does it ever!
Mine sends me all kinds and I just brush them off, but it is damb hard to brusj off too.... I have 94 texts saved on my cell.... this is to show my lawyer who he really is...
1- saying I love you come back and
2- saying you and the petifile are sick fucks
then the good ones come again!
He doesn't know what he wants.... we have to find out what we need and want so we can move forward...
It's easier to help someone else than to hear or take your own advice, especially when you are hurting!
Re: I cant handle this confused101: I've had 8 people ask me how I was doing today. I had to tell them "Good, thanks". Can you believe that?
Re: I cant handle this tripny2k6: I know what you mean with the contact hurting. My ex works in the same facility as me and I have to watch her leave work everyday. Yesterday I watched as her and her friend walked out carrying boxes for her to take home and pack her things. they were laughing and smiling the whole way. Why do people get off on making others feel so horrible??!!
Sorry about your text messages, stay strong. He is just trying to keep you in limbo. Show him it doesnt bother you by ignoring his texts. This will definately drive him nuts.
Re: I cant handle this td7629: Jodie.. It is all just a game to him.. don't play along with him.. My ex did this to me for months.. It will pass if you keep ignoring him.. I had my cell phone number and my home number changed.. You may want to consider doing this. Hang in there.
Re: I cant handle this CDNgurl: Even if his motive isn't to hurt you, you need to set up some boundaries to protect yourself. You can either not respond, or let him know that he needs to stop contacting you for a good long while, and that maybe you can revisit your friendship sometime in the future... if you even want that.
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